How to Use a Strapless Strap-On
Tips on how to use a strapless strap-on dildo
We must admit, when you first set eyes on a strapless strap-on it is one of the more confusing-looking couple's sex toys out there. But if you're the sort that relishes in a challenge, wants something new and exciting to play with, or dislikes the clunky feel of a strap-on harness, then read on. You may have just discovered a new treasure and we'll show you how to get the most out of it.
What is a strapless strap-on?
Firstly, what's it for and who can use it? A strapless strap-on is a sex toy that offers couples an alternative to using a strap-on harness and dildo during penetrative sex. Designed to be worn by a vulva owner and held in place with their pelvic floor muscles (sometimes called kegel or PC muscles), strapless dildos can be used by lesbian couples seeking simultaneous stimulation and by women who're into pegging men.
As mentioned they are kinda funny looking, but once you realise what is meant to fit where, it all becomes brilliantly simple and effortless!
The first strapless strap-on to emerge was the patented Tantus Feeldoe & Realdoe ranges. Since then more double dildo designs or 'doubles' have appeared on the sex toy market but they essentially all work in the same way. They all require the wearer to hold the strapless dildo in place using the kegel muscles.
Without any kegel training or preparation, some may find this tricky on their first try with a strapless strap-on as it can fall out, after all, things should be getting wet and slippery down there. If this is the case, perhaps try scheduling some time to do simple pelvic floor routines or invest in a set of pelvic toners. These will help strengthen those muscles making it easier to control your new 'dick', and get the most out of it.
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If all else fails and you're having difficulty gripping the insertable bulb in your vagina well enough to effectively thrust and f*ck your partner, you can always try adding a harness into the mix. There is absolutely nothing wrong with using a strapless strap-on or a 'double' with a harness for some added support and a secure, comfortable fit.
At first, this might seem a little counterproductive. I mean... what's the point of using a strapless strap-on and then securing it with a harness strap, surely you'd just use a regular strap-on? If this is your line of thinking, you may have jumped the gun a little.
Using a strapless strap-on differs from typical strap-on sex in more ways than one. Of course, there's no harness or o-ring with the strapless version but as mentioned above, the strapless strap-on is also known as a 'double', which essentially offers pleasure to both the giver and the receiver! Although wearing a regular strap-on might be mentally arousing for the wearer it doesn't provide any physical stimulation to their vulva like the strapless strap-on would.
Strapless strap-ons are considered more advanced strap-on toys so if you're a beginner just dipping your toe in the strap-on pool, perhaps start with a regular strap-on or pair a strapless strap-on with a harness, then go entirely strapless once you've had some practice.
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Benefits of using a strapless dildo
There are several reasons why couples may prefer to use a strapless strap-on in place of the harness, o-ring and strap-on dildo combination. Some obvious benefits of double strap-ons include…
Forget straps and buckles
So you can get straight down to play. There's no slipping into a harness, or adjusting the waist and leg straps. Simply slather on your lube, insert and play.
Enjoy more skin-on-skin contact
Because there's no front harness panel in the way. In this way, your bodies can be even closer, giving a more natural and connected feel.
Simultaneous pleasure for the giver and receiver
So you can build to climax together. Unlike traditional strap-on play when the receiver experiences the majority of pleasure, the double dildo will ensure both partners are catered for. This has got to be the biggest selling point of the strapless strap-on.
Enjoy a more natural angle
Especially when using Feeldoe & Realdoe strapless strap-on dildo. Because of how the dildo is held by the wearer, it means the shaft protrudes at a more realistic angle, which leads to greater control and better penetration.
Need more help and advice?
Check out our range of strapless strap-ons to find your perfect match. If you want to try a strapless strap-on but need a bit more advice then get in touch at [email protected]
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