Beginners Guide to Clit Clamps - Scary or Sublime?
A common theme with BDSM sex toys (you’ve probably noticed) is their exceptional ability to mix a little pain with pleasure. Clit clamps certainly do that, but we'd like to emphasise ‘little’ pain when talking about these small kinky sex toys.
Some people have a fetish or kink for a slight bit of pain and clitoris clamps really do the trick. Others hear the word clamp in an intimate context and run a mile. Particularly when it comes to the oh-so-sensitive clit.
Nipple clamps- sure. Nips are more robust and not packed with over 8,000 nerves which could potentially, send you spiralling into a world of agony. So we get it. They sound quite intimidating, but in our honest opinion, if you don't try one, you're missing out.
The Good News: Clit Clamps Don’t Hurt... Much
The sensation is more like an increased pressure around the whole clitoral area, but it’s not an intense grip or pinch like nipple clamps. Having said that, people’s pain and sensitivity levels can vary wildly so like most sex toys there's some individual experimentation to be done.
When fitted correctly, a clit clamp gently squeezes either side of the clitoris, not directly grasping it in the same way a nipple clamp grips a nipple. Surprisingly, it hurts way less than you’re probably imagining and is more of a pressure than a pain in terms of the sensation delivered.
If you don’t like the idea of clamping anything down there then you might want to consider clit suckers or pussy pumps instead. These sex toys also stimulate the clitoris but the sensations are less intense. For those at the other end of the scale who've tried and tested the classic clitoral clamp and want to go one step further, the world of electro clamps awaits! But that's another topic altogether!
What are Clit Clamps For?
Quite simply, they enhance sensation. Like any sex toy that isolates and restricts blood flow, a pussy clamp exerts a little pressure resulting in heightened sensitivity of the clitoris and inner labia.
They don’t just feel good. There’s an aesthetic element too. A clamp will cause the clitoris to swell, protruding further, which can look rather enticing. For those seeking to soften the angles of a stainless steel clamp, there is a whole range of decorative clamps studded with beads, bells or jewels, aka clitoral jewellery.
Clit clamps can be used during foreplay, role play or along with a gag for a good spanking session for those kinky BDSM fans. Or you could use them in combination with other toys such as dildos or vibrators.
For fans of anal sex, try elevating your clit clamp adventures with anal toys like butt plugs to simultaneously enhance your pleasure in multiple erogenous zones. So it seems when it comes to clit clamps, the opportunities are endless...
Using a Clit Clamp
Some more good news, they’re super simple to use. As expected, there are some general rules to follow however the style of clit clamp being used may mean a slight variation in how to put it on and where the clamp’s pressure is exerted. Below, we’ll cover the two most common styles.
Step 1: Stimulate the clitoris so it grows in size. Manual masturbation with lube, using a vibrator, oral sex, or applying a clit gel can help.
Step 2: Put the clamp on. How you do this will depend on the type of clit clamp. Looped, metal clips should be gently pulled apart. Place the arms on either side of the inner labia and over the clitoris, which should sit within the wider gap at the top. Pinch the metal arms together until you reach your desired pressure.
Tweezer clips should be loosened off so it opens fully. Place the covered tips on either side of the clit and then slide the ring upwards to tighten.
Step 3: Kiss, lick, blow, suck — however you want to play — and enjoy unrivalled sensations.
As fun as clit clamps or labia clamps can be, it’s a good idea to limit wear time to around 10 minutes. After which, remove the clamp so blood flow can return to normal. For those of you who don’t want that pleasure to end, rest assured that you get a second bit of the cherry. The rush of fresh blood to the clit can feel just as delicious tingly and satisfying as wearing it.
For first-time users who want to try and introduce this into their sex life, then the shorter the time worn the better.
Can You Wear Clit Clamps During Penetrative Sex?
Sure! But, from my experience, tweezer clit clamps are easier for this. They don’t pinch the full length of the inner labia in the same way, so the vagina opening remains totally unobstructed for penetrative pleasure.
One more thing: if your clitoral clamp has pretty little adornments, like the wonderful Fifty Shades Darker Just Sensation Beaded Clitoral Clamp be aware of how these might press against sensitive parts if in body-to-body positions, like a missionary. Also, if using condoms and barriers, be mindful of any edges that could catch and potentially damage the rubber. Just something to be aware of. The same goes for any clitoral jewelry that you might wear.
Keen to Explore Clit Play Sex Toys?
We’ve got lots more guides on sex toys specifically for stimulating the clitoris. A couple that might interest you:
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